Good news: no one is actually paying close attention to you. I know that sounds cynical but it can save you a lot of stress. Why worry about things no one is going to notice? The Spotlight EffectDo as many people notice us as we think? Tags:PerspectivesPsychology Leave a Reply Cancel replyYour email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *Name * Email * Website Comment * Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment.