Happiness is Picking Your Problems
Or, Life is a Big Game of Whack-a-Mole
The first of The Three Most Important Things is that the whole point of life is to be happy. But what is happiness?
For an answer to that I’ll turn to one …
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The First Rule of Zombies
Is also an important rule of life.
What do I mean when I say “zombies”? I’m referring to the zombies mode in the hugely popular Call of Duty series. In zombies mode, the objective is to stay alive as long …
The Personal Backlog: How I Organize My To-do List
Over the years, I’ve tried a number of different task management systems. Some were paper-based, some were all electronic, and some (highly ineffective ones) were all in my head. Some worked well, others not so much.
I’ve also spent a …
Why We Give Our Kids an Allowance
In a word: practice.
Having, saving, managing, and spending money are all skills. You can’t develop skills without practice. Kids generally don’t have a way to acquire money, so how can we expect them to develop those skills? Not just …
One Thanksgiving Isn’t Enough
What if there were a day where (almost) everyone had the day off and (almost) everyone got together with family and friends just to eat and visit? No shopping, no gifts, no religious affiliation, no decorations except maybe getting out …
The ‘Play to Win’ Mindset and Mu
One night last week at dinner my oldest son asked me the following question:
“If you could live in a mansion by yourself or be homeless with Mom, which would you choose?”
I understood the point of his question: to …
Reminder: Focus on Results!
I picked up a fantastic idea from Agile trainer Angela Druckman last week. She recounted a story about a presentation she had been to where the speaker asserted that everyone would be more successful if they regularly asked themselves, “What …